Hello all!
Classes are in full swing this week and I am still trying to learn my way around.
I am taking Nga Tirohanga Rue o te Taha Hinengaro: Bicultural Perspectives in Psychology;
He Tirohanga o Mua: Maori Customs, Lore, and Economics;
and (no fancy Maori name) Organisational Psychology.
The class system is very different here. I only go to each class once for 2 hours of lecture a week. Two of my three classes also have tutorials, so I go to a discussion for the class for another hour or so once a week. I am in the classroom only 9 hours a week, compared to 18 hours at Whitworth. This system has thus far given me a lot of free time that I am not sure what to do with. I have caught up on all my readings and still find time to twiddle my thumbs. The few friends I have made are mostly science majors, so they have labs and are much busier than I am. It also costs money to use the internet, so I try to use it sparingly in my room. Kiwis are also generally standoffish, so attempts to make friends in my classes has been unsuccessful. I make all of my meals in my own flat kitchen, so I do not have opportunity to meet people in the dining hall either. It has been lonely the last few days and I am beginning to be discouraged about making Kiwi or other friends to spend all of my free time with. I know this feeling will change as the semester picks up, so I am trying to stay positive and put myself out there.
On a lighter note, my classes have been really interesting. I think I am going to enjoy this semester academically very much and I think I will learn a lot. I have been given such a great opportunity to study here and I am excited to make the most of it. I also went to a campus ministry BBQ last night and had a great time! I was the only American there, so it was a change from Orientation last week. I met some people and am going to church with them on Sunday. I hope this will be a venue for new friendships and intentional relationships. The Christian culture is different here as well and I am excited to explore what it looks like and learn from it.
I am trying to remember that this experience has a purpose, regardless of if I am "having fun" the whole time. I will be a better and wiser person because of all this and I have to have faith it will all be for good.
Alyssa that's awesome about your classes! Keep your chin up about making friends my dear because you are the friendliest person I know and people would be crazy not to see that :) I think you're already a wiser person, kudos girl!
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